Victoria N Shigwedha

  Get rid of arrogance from your heart.   Always have your feet firmly planted on the ground and stay humble. Don't look down on others, no   matter how less well-off they appear. Remember, the one you look down on today might be the person you have to look up to tomorrow. Such is life! Judging somebody and looking down at them reveals more about your character than theirs. Let love lead!❤☺

The relationship between trust and love is a close one. Trust means trusting yourself, your own judgments and trusting others. Trust is the foundation for any relationship. Without it, the relationship will be shaky and will eventually fail. Lack of trust is the main reason relationships fall apart. Why? If you don't have trust it means you won't feel secure that your partner will love and be loyal to you. After all, trust means you can rely on your partner, can confide in them and feel safe with them.

We tend to focus more on things we don't have rather than what we have. How often do you pause to appreciate what you have in life? You will realize that you have so much to be grateful for. Appreciate the little things. There are so many things to be grateful for. Here are a Few;    1. Good Health 2. Breathing Fresh Air 3. Having a home 4. Love 5. Hearing 6. Children 7. Parents and the list goes on   "Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."                                                                                                  ~Oprah Winfrey

 Only a man who is uncertain and insecure about himself will make you feel unworthy or that you don't deserve to be fought for. A real man will always stay by your side, support you, encourage you to do better, and listen to you with every cell of his body. A real man will always remind you that you are more than enough. Queen! You are a queen! As a matter of fact you are the queen. You are powerful, determined, strong and beautiful. Don't ever let a man make you feel some type of way about yourself.

Many people feel so pressured by the expectations of others that it causes them to be frustrated, miserable and confused about what they should do. There will always be people who pressure you into being who they want you to be. You have to accept the fact that you cannot keep everyone happy and you cannot expect everyone to like you. Just as people have different preferences for fashion or food, so they have different preferences for people. Do You!☺❤

At some point, you just have to let go and move on. It might be the hardest thing to do, but you have to summon all the strength you possibly can to finally let go. Some people and things just aren't meant for you, no matter how much you wish they were. Some jobs and situations just won't work out, but know that it is perfectly okay for things not to work out. Nobody's life is a straight line that makes perfect sense. Everybody has twists and turns, and everyone has to turn around every now and then. When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for.